does someone look for some adventure?

Yesterday I met with one of my old acquaintance friends. He complained about staying in Turkey and he said that he is like a slave in Turkey. As he said, he is not so satisfied and pleased with his life. ''My life would be same here in this country for a lifetime and it never change, I know'' he said. He is obviously looking for something adventure. 'So, do you have a plan to change this fate?' I asked. 'I dont know, maybe!' he said. 'İt seems that there is a ray of hope for you!' I respond. 'Actually,' he said with a murmuring sound, 'there is a way.' 'I met a girl from Brazil and she is 7 years older than me and she loves me, I think I love her too.' he began to explain. 'Since last year' he told me when I asked 'Since when you talked to her?'.

He said 'No one knows this but you, Arif', and went on as saying 'not even my family'. 'How do you know she a trusted one?' I asked. 'She told me everything about herself and she is ready to send me money to buy a ticket to fly to Brazil.' he said. 'Wow!' I said, 'go to see her then!'

'She wants me to stay with her and work in brazil!' he continued. 'What about the language? You are not even able to speak English, let aside the language of Brazil!' I asked with curious eyes. He doubtfully responded that 'She told me that she will send me a language course to learn portuguese, she said that learning portuguese is not so hard if you live in Brazil.'

'That s so nice then!' I said, 'I would try if I was you!' I said. 'Look Arif' he went on after I encouraged him, 'you are an educated person, you could be faced with such situations or maybe know more people have such experiences, so I am so happy to have a chance to take your advices here' he said.'Please dont make fun of this serious situation, ok?'

'Why should I have do that?, I am so serious when I said I would try' I said by making it clear for him.

'But I still have some hesitations ' he said. 'I dont know I could be happy with her.'

'As I understood from your words, she loves you so much' I started to recount, 'İf you believe that you love her too, then what could be the obstacle before your happiness?' I asked her.

'Difference of culture?' he stated with an undecided sound. 'I am afraid that the difference of cultures could cause a miserable end to this love!' he said.

'Go to try Şakir, go to be happy with her!' I said.

We both looked each others and I think we both thought the same things: Marriage is not a matter of trying! So you have to know opposite pretty well and internet is not a good way to do it.

My advice to him was that he should go to Brazil and meet that girl in a closer way to know her better. If they can sense that they can get along well and can do it for a lifetime, then they should not think more to marry.

İnternet is a common way of dating and meeting of couples today and it will be more common in the future. I think no one will find this way of meeting so strange in the near future.